An update

Its been a while since i last updated my blog as I have been busy with work for the past few months.

After starting work, I have realised that people indeed may not be as truthful to you as it seems.. I have learnt it the rather hard way as some people had began to dislike me for my candidness.. As you can see, I am an avid believer of work life balance and being friends, i thought it would be ok for me to share these sentiments to my run mates.. However, it did not sit well with sum of them and now i hav made "enemies" for myself.. To be honest, I do not really care about these "enemies" as they are not the ones that are the closest to me in the run but it just seems weird to know that people actually dislike you..

In the end, I think that friends that i have made in school days are indeed the true friends as they accept me for who i am ( hopefully, they are not acting PC with me) and i dare say that the few of the uni friends that i have made are indeed my best friends who understand me and can confide in..

On a side note, I went to HK with one of my run mate.. To me, I can consider him as one of those that i am relatively closer to and as such, have sum degree of trust in him.. Despite having misunderstandings, I truely hope that i have not mispalced my trust in him and will like to further develop my friendship with him if posible..

I dont know if my candidness have caused people misery as at certain times i may hav said things that people are not aware of and the truth have shocked them relatively badly.. Maybe i should not hav said those things to him as I hav a feeling that he has since closed up himself in his shell and am unwilling to have a "free" conversation with me and others..

Feeling very perplexed and am sad as i do not wish to lose this friend that i have made because of this incident.. Haix..